It seems I have 3 issues which are all connected - and i'm stumped

Last week I noticed my auto-dimming rear view mirror had stopped dimming, which was annoying but no major issue, so this weekend I got out the multi-meter, disconnected the mirror and found no voltage to the mirror when the lights were on and engine running.
I put it back together, checked the inter web and found the mirror, auto lights and auto wipers all run off the same circuit, i hadn't had the wipers on all week and i was sure the auto lights were working. to be sure i de-activated the auto lights and re-activated them... This is where the 1st error come up "AUTO LIGHTS FAULT" and a SERVICE light - De-activating them cleared the error, and re-activating them brought it back.
With this error cleared I next put the wipers into auto, to find "AUTO WIPERS FAULT" and a SERVICE light
A search of this forum instructed me this could be a 7.5A fuse in the engine bay fuse box, I promptly changed this and tested, no fix - Next I found this could be a problem with the light/rain sensor behind the mirror, But i'm not sure why this should just fail, so curiosity took over, I put the multi-meter across the 3 pin connector for the sensor in all combinations and found no voltage to this either....
At this point, ive run out of ideas?????? can any one offer any assistance?
Many thanks in advance
Dean